“You live through certain things before you understand them. You can’t always take the analytical position.”
This is my second book from Sally Rooney and I might just read all her books because her writing is so unique. I love how the author is able to aim at topics that test my perspective and allow me to get lost in the way the author visualizes the world.
This conflicted story is told from Francis's POV. Francis and Bobbi are both college students and poets performing at an open mic event. Though they once dated, they remained as best friends and one night Melissa compliments their performance following up to a second hang out which is how Melissa and her husband Nick become a part of Francis' life. It all becomes challenging when Francis develops emotions toward Nick.
Navigating all emotions that were slowly rising when both couples began to accept that monogamy may not apply to them was quite interesting, to say the least. Sally Rooney places the right emphasis on what our culture has taught us into believing and breaks down every layer of why we approach relationships the way we do. Poor decisions is the driving factor, causing a ripple effect of events, and most certainly Franci's persistence in not wanting to be seen as vulnerable her desperate need to reach out and speak up on her chronic illness. Every character is flawed in their own way but I appreciated how other topics like endometriosis was introduced and well displayed.
Spoiler:
What a complex idea behind accepting Nick's affair with Francis' as this not only helped Nick depression and self-esteem but become more proactive and participatory in Melissa's life. Although Melissa agreed, it didn't come easy and I thought the email written by Melissa to Francis was beautifully written with concepts and thoughts that are usually kept for oneself, it was great to see how others also arrive to the same way of thinking regarding Francis and Nick's affair.
Rating: 4
Author: Sally Rooney
Format: Audiobook
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